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I wish I didn’t
By ABRead moreM, I wish I didn’t still think of you. I wish every date I didn’t go on, even good...
1med student boy
By arts girlRead moreYou were the boy I met at a campus pub and you changed everything. You were the med student...
Just leave me like you want
By KathyRead moreI am really tired of this situation. I am tired of making excuse for how disrespectful you are to...
Why I can’t take you back
By JessibirdRead moreDear Philosoraptor, I know you want to get back together. But I will never be in a relationship with...
I don’t regret anything
By ArminRead moreDuring our time apart, I’ve thought a lot about our relationship from the beginning to the end. It started...
Happy cheating, exes.
By MeganRead moreI wanted to contact every lying, cheating, text-dumping and callous ex of mine, to tell you all that I...
Almost there, but not quite.
By 0739Read moreAkala ko wala na. Akala ko tapos na. Akala ko sapat na. Akala ko hindi na babalik pa. Akala...
Still in my thoughts
By LRead moreI have mostly recovered from our break-up. But I still think about you a lot, and from time to...
Thank-you!
By DhianneRead moreI just want to say thank you. Thank you for finally ending something I didn’t have the guts to...
After 11 weeks of a bittersweet journey
By SweetheartRead moreHey there D. I don’t know if you would remember but today was supposed to be our 3rd monthsary....
Regrets, mistakes, betrayal, loss, loved, love!
By AnneRead moreI remember sitting there every night, wishing things would get better with us… Wishing we still Had what we...
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I’m not opposed to the post-split Bridget Jones cliche of crying along to All By Myself, but here are…
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Whether you’re going through a break-up or know someone else who is, here are a few of my favourite...
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